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Assalamualaikum!

Last night private sharing session with housemates. And is this girl's famous topic? Like everytime we talk, mesti ada je terselit or mesti ada je end up dengan topic kahwin. Arghh stress ! Kaum adam selalu tak cakap pasal ni ha? Kalau tak why we are girls always think about it?

Adakah we all gatal or korang tak sanggup menghadapi cabaran ini. Haa last night I listened to one of this - lelaki berkahwin bukan semata-mata mendapat wanita tersebut, bawak pergi honeymoon, but once you get married, all responsibilities didikan agama, segala dosa wanita yang ditanggung before ni turn to you-husband. Waa such a big deal right.

Invisible but saya yang dengar wah no wonder kalau tanya kenapa tak nak kahwin sebab tak ready, tapi sampai bila kaan. Kami wanita mesti laa tak rasa tu kan, kahwin lagi senang kot,dapat pahala free as long obey to your husband. Senyum, masak, makeup semua untuk suami.

Usually syndrome kahwin ni akan rasa bila stress nak/tengah exam (macam sekarang) or when you look at friend's of your friend wedding picture. Arghh cantiknya, nak kahwin, argh sweetnyaa.Semua ada. Hum kalau tengok reramai lagi la, ok kawin aku nak design ini itu, colour itu ini, nak buat kat mana laa. Haissh cari wedding planner la. Eeeei kahwin kot, easy but a lots to go through..Haruslah tak semua benda senang kot.

For the time being, I try to be a good, to change to be a good girl, muslimah. Dalaman harus kuat Nurul Atiqa, hati harus tabah dan kental gitu. Don't regret what you have passed through before this and now, take it as exprience. Experience is a good teacher ever, mungkin kita tak rasa berguna sekarang, mungkin it used when you are going to get marry, having life with my future husband. It is called basic.

Simple but looks complicated.Whatever it is, dont stop dreaming. hahaha. At least make you awake !

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Baru baru ini seorang saudara terdekat saya dah pun menikah. Sempat lagi skype dengan diorang masa majlis and I asked my uncle , "So how do you feel?". "I feel very young!" he joked. Then he asked me, "How are you ka? Have you found 'the one'?" I smiled. He said, "Don't rush into marriage. Take your time. A beautiful girl like you... you have to be very careful."

Well I just nodded in agreement. (He calls all of us nieces beautiful, by the way).

"Remember, marriage is not a race. It's a journey. And being in love and being married are two different things."

I can't forget those words! So deep...

Credit : Asma' wedding picture