I've pushed aside the topic of marriage for quite a while. I was in denial for the longest time. I enjoy single life and I never believed in rushing into something I'm not ready for. Mum and I have had this discussion (ok tipu, dia bagi warning) that my main goal is to graduate first, stable here and there, Allah's willing, and we'll cross the bridge when we get to it.
I never really gave this thing more than 10 seconds of deliberation. As I said earlier, I pushed them aside. That's why I am very much like not into the topic of marriage if someone came up with it. Be it on your blog, FB status or whatsoever. Macam anti semacam.
Howeverrrrrrrrrrrrr I now feel it's time for me to look at things from a different perspective.
Last night I was respectfully asked by one Muslim guy if it'd be okay for him to get to know me with the intention of getting married.
Whatttt?? At this age? I know, I am 20! No, not yet, coming 20.
Ok thank God it was only a DREAM.
So vivid, but not clear about the name and all. All I know, he's a doctor and saw something Kbreeti (does this even make sense?)
Woke up feeling very nervous I can tell. hahaha. It was a nightmare for me seriously.
Somehow it really got me thinking. As much as I want life to work out a certain way, He is the best Planner of all. I've always prayed for what's best and not for anyone specific because maybe what or who I want is not written for me. And as much as I want what's best for others it may not be what He has planned for them. Just have faith that they're all part of His ultimate plan for us.
ps: and oh everyone, please don't misinterpret this post. I'm not saying I'm thinking of getting married soon! The dream just made me realise a few things about life. It keeps moving on and so should we!
Lailatul Qadr will be coming soon, inshaAllah. The night Allah has ordained its value to be worth more than a thousand months.While we look forward to Lailatul Qadr after the iftar we just ate in the safety and comfort homes there are people out there who don't have the privilege and luxury to do the same. While we fast for twelve or fourteen or however many hours in a day, the victims of the drought in the Africa aren't able to break their fast because they have no food or water.
In the last ten days of Ramadhan while waiting for Lailatul Qadr you can help to make a difference in someone's 'world'. Here's a humble list of causes by Muslim Aid to give you an idea. Thanx bapak for giving me this :)
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