August 7, 2009

Dibuai Kasih?

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim....

this note is dedicated to everyone in love. :)

Sekarang at this point of time in my life, in KMS i mean now..semakin rancak perbualan2 sekitar topik hangat tu - siapa yang dah ad bf/gf, siapa yang dah bertunang (erkk), siapa yang dirisik, siapa yang finally jumpa dengan 'mr right', siapa yang sudah ta'aruf, siapa yang sedang sibuk buat persiapan untuk perkahwinan hujung tahun ni (ok2.over dah)....etc. Since that last night all muslimat were compulsory to attend the Usrah Perdana and the topic is Cinta. (kinda lah)

Apa2pun semoga keberkatan dr Allah menaungi setiap pertemuan2 ini...dan semoga nafsu dan syaitan tak berjaya menghalang keinginan fitrah kita untuk bercinta, cinta yang suci dengan harapan ia kekal abadi dunia dan akhirat..;-) semoga jodoh itu dtgnya dr Allah, bukan syaitan, bukan jin!( ref: syurga cinta)

Alhamdulillah....:) these kind of 'news' (read: non hazardous gossips) never fails to lift up any conversation! and I am genuinely very happy for those family and friends of mine.... ;-)

To all, 'Barakallahulak, wa baraka 'alaik, wa jama 'a bainakuma fi khair!'

(Semoga Allah memberkati untukmu dan melimpahkan berkat ke atasmu serta mengumpulkan kamu berdua dalam kebajikan.)
(May Allah bless both of you, and enjoins you in goodness)

ameen.:)

Indeed, I would imagine that you would agreee that one of the greatest blessing Allah has bestowed upon all of you thus far would for one be that very person, now beside you- that source of mawaddah arrahmah ( bliss and blessings) insyaAllah.

In this occasion I'd like to share this for everyone with some love to give...especially with those lucky ones whom have biiznillah found their other half, especially so for the ones whom have alhamdulillah been able to rightfully tie the knots, a hadith and some humble words...

‘The Messenger of Allah (sall Allahu alaihi wa salem) kissed al-Hasan ibn Ali while al-Aqra ibn Habis al-Tamimi was sitting with him. Al-Aqra said, ‘I have ten children and I have never kissed any of them’. The Messenger of Allah (sall Allahu alaihi wa salem) said, ‘Whoever does not show mercy(love) will not be shown mercy (love)’

[Riwayat Al bukhari, Muslim, al tirmizi and abu daud]


' ‘Whoever does not show mercy(love) will not be shown mercy (love)’
'Sesiapa yang tidak memberi kasih sayang, tidak akan diberi kasih sayang'.....

so in that spirit, let us all start with the intention to GIVE

My brothers and sisters, when you love, love for the sake of Allah, and insyaAllah it will be one that will be rewarded continued blessings until the end of time.

For if you love for another reason above that, it would be hard for you to do it right and it will fade.

Love first, then be loved...

Let Allah alone reward you for your love, and it would be wise that you do not expect to get back what you give. A sincere love does not expect to be rewarded.

For Allah will surely give something better than anyone else could.

To love usually means to sacrifice. Without it, it wont be as sweet.

Lastly, don't worry if you are not loved, but instead you should be worried if you can't love.

Cinta pada manusia itu bukan hak milik, tapi satu anugerah.

To love does not mean to own, but to treasure it as long as Allah lets it be with us.

Hence, for your gratefulness upon this blessing, and for your humility towards the fact that that strong feeling of love is in fact incomparable to the love Allah has for you.....May the love you share for one another brings both of you closer to the one who bestowed you that love.

selamat bercinta ye!

5 comments:

nazrin UK said...

i thought this post will end with

"so..i would like to invite all of you to my wedding blablabla.."


hehe :p

Q said...

cool
i like ths post
smlm x dgr pon ceramah
blik blk temn izzah sakit

Nasuha said...

best!~

Zohura Aabidah said...

hey.. nice post! hehe..
dasyat la.. hoping i can write as good as u.. :)
neway, thnks for the advice.

Anonymous said...

*crying* and *crying*

-does really help in these hard moments, thanx dear Tqa :)-